I, too, dressed my kids in daycare clothes instead of real PJs. That saved me so much time in the morning when rushing to drop them off before work!
Since we both worked, we never did the separate bedroom issue but I would get up and walk to the next room to nurse the baby. My husband couldn't sleep with a baby in the same room because of their noisy breathing. LOL! In retrospect, I probably should have just moved out and shared a room to save myself the hassle of walking back and forth.