I'm truly sorry your wife abandoned you, but I hope you don't seriously believe that this one selfish woman represents our entire gender. Chalk it up to a difficult life lesson of being disappointed that the woman you loved turned to be a superficial selfish woman.
I know plenty of women who would love to have PARTNERS, not money-making machines. Ideally, couples can work it out so each is able to pursue fulfilling lives (whether that's in the home or outside the home) and not place all the pressure on one partner to make the money and one partner to run the household. There is a lot of pressure in both of those roles.