This is such a kind, logical way to look at a prenup and how to treat your partner fairly in case things go south. I wish I had thought of this first when my father-in-law insisted I sign one after we got engaged. Instead, I felt insulted and only later came around to seeing it as a way to protect my own interests. I wrote about it here, too, and it turned out to be one of my more popular stories as most people do view prenups in a "judgmental" light.